The
term confidence relates into our mind as an activity which certainly brings a
lot of success for us, but often we do remain confused with the exact meaning
and implementation of this quality in our life.
Confidence
acts as a pillar to a building which keeps it constant and still even if the
outside weather is not supportive, similarly Confidence is just like concrete
which gives strength to our views and automatically gives us out a way of any
kind of situation. It could also be defined as the self generated image of an
individual performing a particular task which again has three possible shades.
One is I cannot do it followed by maybe I can do it and lastly I can and will
do it. Whatsoever the task is, its completion depends only upon this
preliminary image drawn by our heart. Your brain will certainly follow the
pattern shown by your heart. So if I goes the can do or will do way it is
termed as high confidence and if it goes the cannot do way it is low
confidence. So anytime if you have a desire for anything your level of
confidence would be directly proportional to your need to achieve that
particular objective.
So
a simple way to achieve any target in your life is to increase your level of
desire to achieve that objective. Now this desire will automatically trigger
your heart to send positive vibes to your brain to follow the will do path.
Being Cool, Calm and Composed will definitely help you out to achieve high
levels of confidence as it will help you to retain your energy levels and
transform that energy into the power of confidence which triggers the feel of
achieving the target and once this feel is triggered to the brain, it directly
starts controlling the anxiety, nervousness and stress levels and starts
boosting up motivational levels.
You
are the one to know the best about yourself, so if nobody trusts you at least
you can trust yourself.
Most
of you must be thinking about the above made discussion as casual one but my
friends do believe me success starts entering your life the day you start
working on your basics. Confidence is one of the most essential and the most
easily available quality in you granted by nature because it is in you right
from birth when you walked for the first time, you did it because it was a
natural desire, consistent efforts without having the feel of failing, you did
it and that is why you achieved it. The real problems started when you started thinking
of the failures and what people would think of you if you are not able to
finish a particular task. Believe me my friends none of these people care about
your success or failures, but just imagine how would you face your inner voice
and regret of not doing something which you could have done better than others
but you just let it go because you had low levels of confidence as you thought
what others would say if I fail.
So
you have only two options
“Either
let the situation control your confidence
Or
let your confidence take charge of the situation”
THE
CHOICE IS YOURS………
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