The Greed Beyond the Need

 

                                                    The Greed Beyond the Need

Every individual among us is running. We all are running for money as we do feel that it is the only solution to all our problems, indeed it is as well. But the problem is that there is no target to be achieved when you start running this race.

You start earning from a scratch and you are highly motivated, aiming to earn some money that would make you meet both the ends and provide a good life to your family. You dream that if and if I can afford a car, it would bring end to all my misery and I would travel happily with my family. But once you buy that car, another need strikes your mind. May be if I can have an own house of my big enough for my family, may be having this house could put me at peace and I could feel a sense of accomplishment in my life. You start working hard and invest few more years of your life. During these few years you compromise on things that you like and the moments you enjoy. Maybe you would be sacrificing some good times that you could have spent with your family or friends, but eventually you make this sacrifice to get into a new house where you could eventually enjoy with your family.

So in this way we keep on setting targets that are worldly in nature but we associate a feeling of happiness and accomplishment when we achieve it, but in the duration we compromise with the things and the moments that we actually want to live on the accomplishment of the objectives.

Time passes and flies, but we are eventually trapped in self-created targets that we eventually feel would be the source of our happiness and would add to good times for the future. But somewhere deep inside our heart we feel the pain of giving up the things we like, the small gifts the small talks and the precious time we give upon with our loved ones in order to build a house and a good future for our families.

We never realize that this habit of ours slowly gets transformed from need to greed and we just keep on running after unlimited targets in this limited life where eventually we have limited days and limited years to survive on this earth. Working for families is needed and indeed is essential but we forget the true essence of life and then comes a point when we realize that may be we have come too far in the search of happiness and indeed we actually missed upon the true moments of happiness and joy that we could have lived to the fullest.

So it is better that we start differentiating between our needs and our greed and rather invest this limited time on the feelings on the moments that really make us feel happy and also make our families feel happy and bonded because this is the real happiness and no cars, no houses could bring this feeling of joy and warmth that love, care and affection could bring to us.

It is very important to understand the difference between need and greed because there exists a very fine line of differentiation between need and greed and each one of us has to define that boundary so that we do not cross the boundary and start wasting our time chasing the greed because greed has no end and we can never satisfy our greed, even though needs could be satisfied and fulfilled and they could bring in satisfaction to our lives but by being greedy we just ruin ourselves of the precious time we do have in our life.

Thus we need to realize that we do not have infinite time with us and so we do not require infinite resources to fulfil this life with materialistic things, instead we should aim for a peaceful life that provides us with happiness, satisfaction and contentment because it is these aspects that would eventually make us feel to add a meaning to life and would eventually help us to derive more in our life.

It is rightly said that we only live once but if we live right once is enough, so it means that we should realize that what is right for us and what is not because if we do not realize this aspect it would add misery and increase more challenges in life, might be we could earn more with this approach but we would eventually drift far away from what real happiness is and this should not be the aim of life, instead we should focus on acquiring a peaceful and meaningful life.

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"How to Access- The Success"

 

How to Access- The Success

Success is actually a very common destination as every individual wants to achieve success or become successful. Everybody is running and chasing success like it is the only goal in life. Most of the people associate name, Fame and money with success. It is these aspects that term an individual successful in the modern society. However, want and desire is one thing but actually becoming successful and reaching the pinnacle of performance that brings in success is a totally different aspect.

Success is not accessible to all and in order to make it accessible, there are basically two steps that needs to be followed.

Step 1- Understand what actually success means to you as an individual and as a person

The first mistake that most of the people make is considering success as a common aspect that is same for all. If one individual considers becoming rich as an orientation for success, most probably his/ her friend would also consider becoming rich as success. This is the biggest mistake which we make. We define our success in relativenes to what is success for others. So the first step is to actually realize the meaning of success in our personal life. This step is extremely important because without this realization our efforts would be in wrong direction and we would be focusing towards achievement of things and goals that will not value to us eventually.

Example- There were two friends, one of the friend wanted to earn money and become a successful entrepreneur, so he left his house at the age of 19 and worked really hard to become a successful entrepreneur by the age of 35. However, after getting into business he barely had any time left with him for his family, his parents grew old and he was not able to manage his time between his wife and his parents because of increased workload. Time passed and he realized one day that what is the use of earning if he doesn’t have time for his near ones.

On the other hand, his friend started his own business but at a small scale, so that he could manage it while being at home, so even though he was not able to earn much but the good thing was that he was able to spend time with his family. So by the time he was 35, he was not earning very good, but he was very satisfied with the time he was giving to his family and the moments he spent with his family. He actually did not have any regrets.

Step 2- Prioritize and strategize through reflection and understanding

So it is very important that one should be clear as to what has to be achieved and once this is done the next step is to understand as to how to balance between personal life and professional life. There should be a balance and the quest for excellence and success should not put an individual in a situation where he/she gets frustrated about not giving enough time to personal life as well. It is very important that an individual reflects upon his own personal interests and desires and this would eventually help to get a better understanding and clarity about the personal goals and aspects that would bring in success and personal accomplishment.

One thing that has to be remembered is that Success is not the same for all and that every individual has a different definition for success, what is most important for you is to realize what is Success for you and how would you approach success for you in your life. Once you have an answer to this question, your quest for success would become more clear and achievable while adding contentment to your life as well.

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"LONLINESS"

 

 

 

 

 

 

Loneliness

Have you ever wondered that in spite of having everything in life a strange feeling of being lonely crept into the mind and makes you feel in a standalone situation with a number of people around you but not even a single individual to stand beside you in all your up’s and downs of life. Have you ever felt that in spite of having so many friends you do not have even a single person to share your thoughts and your feelings with.

Life is just like a race with everybody running for the accomplishment of certain unknown motives. Even the people around you, whom you consider your own, do have certain specific motives to be accomplished from you and you do realize this at some point or the other. When in actual this realization takes place you start feeling really very sad, depressed and lonely. Particularly in case of a woman the things really becomes very difficult.

A woman is indeed the loveliest creation of god who brings love and adds significance to the life of all the people attached to her in some way or the other, but on the other hand she also deserves and needs a lot of care and love from someone very special  in her life but the matter of fact is that most of the woman do not get the deserved love or partner to share their precious feelings and this is the reason that many women feel lonely and this loneliness is no less than an insect which keeps on destroying and eats up all the happiness and joy out of one’s life. This beautiful life could seem like a difficult hill to climb alone and support along with a lot of love is required by every individual on this earth that is how nature has designed human beings.

A Woman plays multiple roles through her lifetime, from a caring daughter to a loving wife and then a responsible mother, a woman spends and dedicates her whole life for the happiness of her family, but meanwhile she neglects herself, people around her make themselves busy in various activities but she is left alone with no one to really care for her and slowly and steadily loneliness hits her and she feels depressed.

Loneliness can have drastic effects on the mental as well as physical health of a woman. The very first outcome of loneliness can be depression which can further lead to severe mental problems and later on a total blunder for her.

The question which arises here is that is it so that a lady has to sacrifice her happiness and freedom for the sake of others? Or is it so that a lady or a woman does not have the right to live her own way? Is it so that she will always have to kill her dreams for the happiness for the happiness of her family?

Loneliness is more a kind of self created problem than rather it is in actual. There is a beautiful saying”Life is Beautiful and the fact is that you have only one life, but if you live right, once is enough” Loneliness could also be defined as the absence of love in one’s life. At times it may happen that you have a big circle of your well wishers around you but not even a single person who really loves you or cares for you.

Women are considered to be more emotional than men are and so it is but obvious that a woman would desperately love to have an emotional intimacy with someone special in her life, but if she does not find it she starts moving towards a direction of social isolation and starts feeling as if she does not deserve love and care. Love indeed has a very intense relation with loneliness, lack of desired love from an individual or a group of people do trigger the feeling of separating one’s identity from this social world and the person starts getting drowned in his/her own set of beliefs and thoughts and this makes the person totally unacceptable by the society.

It is also a proved fact that women feel lonelier than men and this is because woman are more reactive to any kind of emotions as compared to men and so they are more prone towards such kind of emotional outbursts.

As said earlier that loneliness is one of the self created problems and could be solved if you really want it to be solved.  Just remember that you are a woman the best and the most beautiful creation of god on this earth and you deserve each and every happiness you want to have. You should not let your emotions go to the darker side, no matter if you didn’t got the deserved love from the ones you expected, just open your eyes and see, the whole world is yours and it is never too late to start again, Dating online can bring in lots of excitement, love and strength to your life. You never know you might meet the prince of your dreams who will love you more than he loves himself.

Love kills loneliness and this is what you need to do, just love your life and keep the doors of your heart open to let in the man of your dreams, make new friends and let your feelings and emotions get a vent and a way out, share your experiences, thoughts and feelings and do let others share with you.

Give your life a chance and see how your life will present you the love of your life, the one who can do anything to keep this smile everlasting on your face.

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How To Find Love,,,,

 

 

How to find Love

Love-This word in itself has a very deep meaning. A healthy and smooth relationship based on true love can enhance and uplift many aspects of your life including your social, emotional, physical and mental health. Love works far much more effective than any medicine and can bring a lot of healing to your life. It is a relation that binds two persons together with an immense feeling of attraction, liking and passionate feeling for each other. Love is an ever growing and everlasting feeling that inculcates the sense of intimacy and possessiveness in both the partners involved in it.

Hence it is a certain fact that love can do miracles and make one’s life a heaven, but the main issue which arises here is that how to find the love of your life, being a woman it becomes even more crucial for you to make your search in such a way so that you find the best fit for yourself. Before your search for true love starts, you must be very much particular about what exactly you are looking out of a potential relationship which you are going to have with the person whom you find suitable for your love. This is again a very crucial decision as far as your life is considered as your happiness and the direction in which your life moves totally depends upon this decision of yours.

Finding true love is a slow and gradual process and need efforts in the right direction, if these efforts are executed seriously, very soon you will be in relationship with your love of life, your dream partner.

Step-1- Realize what you want to project

This is the very first and the most important step in starting with your search for your dream man. Projection here refers to the way in which you present yourself in front of others. Try to behave normally and project yourself as you are without any changes as you will get your true love only if you are true and faithful to yourself.

Step-2- Get to know your value

Have confidence in yourself and never forget that you are a woman, one of the most beautiful creations of god in this world and that you will surely get a person who deserves you. Always keep this positive energy inside you and just understand your importance.

Step-3-Be clear what you want

This step is again very crucial and important as you should first of all have a very clear and focused understanding of what you want to do and how you want to do and why you want to achieve it. You must be familiar with the reason that why you want to be into a relation and what you want from this relation.

Step-4-Take initiative and open up

Most of the women are not able to find the true love because of their shyness, if you really want to be happy and find someone who really cares, you will have to certainly come out of your comfort zone and make an effort to take an initiative towards finding your love. You should remember the fact that it is you who need love and until and unless you do not make an effort you will not get it. So make it a point to take the first step and not wait for someone to approach you.

Step-5-Try Online dating, it could do miracles

In the present era online platform is considered to be a great option to get the man of your dreams. It gives you a platform to exhibit your emotions much more easily and you can find a number of people searching for a partner just like you. Online dating gives an easy vent to your feelings so this platform can do miracles if you approach the right way, remember there is a whole new world waiting with open arms to welcome you.

Step-6-Proceed

The work is still half done if you have not started working on it and are still thinking to start with it. So now just stop thinking and start working, so now you are prepared and ready to move ahead, start with an online dating profile. Create a profile which should surely express the real person in you, avoid fake information and try to be honest with the information you provide.

Step-7-Be in Sync with the feelings of your partner

Now you need to understand that online dating could be a great success if you move ahead with a positive and uplifting feeling and try to be in sync with the thoughts of your partner, try to understand each other properly as this conversation will act as the foundation of your relation and the strongness and life of the relation depends upon the similarity in the thoughts of you two. Try to support each other and be very supportive to each other and specially you should trust your partner and respect his decisions.

Step-8-Never ever lose hope

Just remember that dating is not like making friends on social platforms and neither it is making an online purchase. Online dating is an activity which involves two people emotionally with each other, finding a partner is an easy job but finding the right partner is not so easy, it requires a lot of patience. Never ever lose hope in case it takes time to find the perfect match, because good things comes with patience and you need to have it, be consistent with your search and have faith, you will surely get your special someone sooner or later.

If you are positive and move the way it has been told, you will definitely find the man of your dreams, who will come in your life as sunshine and will remove all your loneliness making you the most adorable and lovely lady of his life.

Games v/s Love

 

 

“Games v/s Love”

Gamers are considered to be a species with high intellectual and analytical powers who have the ability to take logical decisions at the time of need and this ability is generated after spending hours of playing games, a true gamer has a passion to play and this passion grows with the span of time. Playing games provides an inner sense of satisfaction and a power to control at the press of a button. Games do inculcate a sense of commitment and curiosity to complete a challenge and this involves a person so much into the game that he/she even forgets to think about the love of his/her life. The belonging and the curiosity to play a game make’s a person go mad and he/she just thinks of himself/herself and the satisfaction he/she gets from doing so, but forgets about something which is very important in life and that is spending some great time with, the love of your life who loves you the most and wants some of your precious time and affection.

Games are a great fun but this should not be done at the cost of sacrificing your love. Most of the gamers do cut them off socially and do not even bother about their love which finally results into broken relationships. You should try to make a perfect balance between your passion for playing games and your love life because both of these things are important for a happy life. The best way out is to define your playing time and the time which you have to spend with your love or the best way is to have some romance while playing. The anxiety of playing if mixed with the emotions of romance will produce a killer feeling and you would love to be with your partner playing and enjoying together.

Playing games and loving your love are just like two tyres of your bike in which a perfect balance is required within the two for a smooth ride. You cannot afford to neglect any one just due to the other. In such a situation you should never let your love feel that you love playing games more than him/her, but you know it that playing games is one thing which keeps you going and you cannot live without it. Instead you need to be a bit smart in this and a bit emotional too. Games are necessary for your brain and your love is necessary for your heart, so in order to be fit and fine both of these should be healthy. So having sync in your relationship and your love for playing games is not a very difficult task, give timely importance to both. You have to remember that in a game you have a pause and a restart button but in your real love life you do not have this option, Human emotions do need a human to understand them and you are someone special for someone who is very special to you too, It would be the best thing if you can make your lovable partner understand the craziness you have for playing games and also your madness levels which you have for him/her and remember if you can involve your partner in games you will surely find one of the best competitor to play with. Playing together can uplift your love for each other which will further enhance the love bond between you too and playing games can even turn out to be naughty at times enhancing your love for each other, every time you play.